Enjoying a relationship in the later stages of one’s life is a boon that few people get. And when he has been lucky enough to find someone to be with as a senior, whether as a serious relationship or as a casual dating experience one really don't want to mess up that experience. That is especially the case if he are a man!
Now I am not being an overt feminist here but seeing as he is dating an older woman, he will need to get some guidance/motivation/help to understand what her needs. This is because the dating experience that he is about to enter now is going to be nothing like anything he have ever experienced!
- The experience of being with a woman that is older, more mature and more confident of herself is an altogether different thing! he will have to give her the space she desires, the comfort that she needs and the respect that she deserves. Being in the later stages of his life, he too will have certain expectations from his partner and trust me when I say this, if he will treat her right, his girl will fulfill all of them. So here are a few tips on dating older women. I hope these allow him to enjoy some amazing experiences with his partner.
- One should not worry about what others think. That is one of the biggest turn-offs for an older, more mature woman! for instance, he would expect her partner to be as much outgoing, confident and carefree as she is. If he do have inhibitions about beginning to date again in the later stages of his life, deal with them before he meet the girl. Otherwise, don't start dating at all!
- His priority here is to have fun and he can very much assume that she would be looking for the same in the relationship too! Both of them have already lived a long and full life and if now, all he want to do is go a bit crazy, be spontaneous and just enjoy, there really is no harm in that. When dating an older woman, being unpredictable and fun loving is the key to keep her interested.
- One Should be clear on his expectations from the relationship at the very beginning and make sure he communicate these to his partner. If he are looking for a casual fling, say it! If it is just about the sex, say that too! And if he wish for the dating experience to evolve into something more serious in the future, it would be wise to mention that too! It would do him well to ensure that both of them are on the same page as far as the relationship is concerned.
- Point to Remember, the girl he is dating is a confident, mature and independent lady, so any mollycoddling, over-protectiveness and feministic attitude will only turn her off. Give her some space, respect her wishes and let her handle things on her own. Trust me, she will automatically thank him for these!